Monday, January 19, 2009

Day 2 & 3

Thanks for all the support and "chin-up" messages--I am feeling calm overall, just those moments where I feel like a deer in headlights.

I definitely want to document each day Im here (if possible) to keep tabs on everything that is going on:

Day 2 (1/18):
  • Mook's birthday! Poor thing--I know he didn't want to be anywhere else, but it was still crummy that he had to spend the day on a couch keeping tabs on me. He's the best nurse I have! He brought his gifts to the hospital, so I was so happy to see the smiles on his face--his favorite gift was the Diaper Dude!
  • NICU head-doctor came down at 8am to explain all about the Level II (there is also a Level III here) NICU Ron would be in if he comes in the next 2 weeks--very informative, and made me feel really at ease--said obviously lungs are a factor but not a high one--most would be not being able to regulate his body temperature and feeding issues--most likely he'd need a tube at first.
  • The early morning hours brought contractions about 3 minutes apart--quickly put back on procardia.
  • Got my second shot to help mature his lungs
  • Spent a lot of time on the monitors-have to admit, it's quite entertaining to watch the nurses try and find him--he hates the monitor, and does a realllly good job of hiding. It scares me at times, but I do feel him "running away"
  • Had another u/s--got to see him practice breathing and playing with his toes! He's still looking good--its just getting cramped with him hitting the placenta and irritating my cervix
  • Hospital beds suuuuck. My back and butt are not built to hold a low lying Ron! I can't sit/lay/stand for a long time in any position--I honestly feel like my tailbone is breaking--heating pad and tylenol is all I get. But ya know what, I still wouldn't trade it.
  • They feed me like Im 82 years old. I get food pretty much every 2 1/2 hours--and the meals are always served super early--dinner is promptly at 4:30pm. Food is not that bad!
  • Had some spotting late in the day--bright red, then brown
  • My OB came by just to see me--I love that man. He didn't have too much to change--just said we'd keep an eye on things
  • Was able to sleep better--Ambien is my friiiend














Day 3
(1/19):
  • Maaajor contractions this morning--about 2 minutes apart and more back pain--my OB was actually here in surgery, so he was able to get over to my room relatively fast. Im officially on procardia every 6 hours.
  • His initial thoughts were to give me the amnio no later than Wednesday this week (34 weeks exactly) and if all was good, I'd have Ron this weekend!
  • Well, he changed his mind--he said he wants to keep taking it day by day. He said there is a 50/50 chance that his lungs are mature, so he's not quite ready to run the test--however, it really is day to day--esp since Im still having some spotting. He obviously does not want me to get to the point where I hemorrhage.
  • I will not go past February 4th-so we've got 15 days to play with. It seems SO long away, yet so close--especially since it really could be any day.
  • Took a shower--felt SO good.
  • Trying my best to get to emails/blogs--my butt is not cooperating!
  • Watching The Bachelor and waiting for the snow-we are supposed to get 1-3 inches--I'd LOVE to see it--so peaceful
  • Bedtime snack just came...gonna go eat... again=)
Sweet dreams!

55 comments:

  1. Wow! It's almost here! Feb. 4th! But I am so happy they are keeping good tabs on the both of you.

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  2. Ooooo, hospital beds do not sound like fun, but you seem to have a good sense of humor about everything and that is great to hear. I know how scared you must be. I still have the same fear that our little one will come too early as well. Ron's a tough kid though! Look at everything he went through to get here. Stay strong and let us know if we can do anything besides maybe send you a butt massager. :)

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  3. Hang in there! Glad that things are still ok - hospitals beds do suck, and I guess strict bed rests mean you can't walk down to the cafe and half a little tea or anything (assuming your hospital has one - the one I work in has a starbucks about 5 feet away)..

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  4. I am glad both you and Ron are hanging in there! Will Mook update us if something happens, you know, like Ron is born?

    I am hoping that the next days go quickly and Ron keeps hanging out on the inside, because every day he is there means less NICU time.

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  5. just catching up here... and wishing you and Ron the best.
    good to know that you two are being well taken care of.

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  6. So glad that you and Ron are doing as well as can be expected.

    Just 'hearing' about the bed makes me move... ugh. And looking at your hand makes me want scratch :) Not helpful, huh??? (Sorry!!!)

    God bless the Ambien!!!

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  7. Wow! I just caught up on your blog- big news! I am sorry that you're confined to the hospital for the duration of the pregnancy (and yes- urrrrg! Hospital beds totally suck...), but I am excited that you could get to meet Ron soon (as long as he's ready, that is...). I know that 34 weeks is still early, but it's a very viable early. I'm just glad that you're safe, and you're where doctors can keep you safe.

    As always, if you need anything at all, please let me know. I am free and clear for the next two weeks... Need an urgent milkshake delivery? Just let me know.

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  8. I heard (somewhere...here?) that every day you make it longer is in general 2 days saved NICU time...so keep on keeping on! Feb fourth is not that long away!!

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  9. Hang in there JJ. I know it sucks being at the hospital. I'm so sorry you & Ron have to go through this. :( But you are both fighters!

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  10. If you don't like your hospital bed, can't you ask for a different one? I mean, they are on wheels. Just a thought. At least the food is decent! Hang in there!

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  11. Sending many Feb 4th vibes your way. Too bad you don't live closer -- I have no formal employment and would be glad to distract you from your worries with visions of what your life will be like 11 months from now :)

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  12. Hang in there my friend. Wow Feb. 4th woo hoo just in time for Valentine's day. May everything be smooth sailing from this point on.

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  13. Sounds like you are in pretty good spirits. Keep up the good work taking care of Ron!

    I will never forget how uncomfortable those hospital beds are. Ask them if they have some type of gel/sand mattress. Once they knew I would be there more than a day or two, they ordered me a special mattress that really helped. It made all the difference and it can't hurt to ask if they have something else.

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  14. Glad you're all doing well. Keep up the good work.

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  15. I feel ya on the hospital bed's comfort. Glad to hear things are going well! Keep up the good work, momma!

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  16. You are a rock star! I did three weeks on home bed rest (32-34 weeks) and it was hard enough. Hang in there!

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  17. My thoughts are with you as you and the team are doing everything necessary to keep Ron cooking for a bit longer. Personally, I really liked the sounds of the monitors, and that made up for not being at home.
    Best of luck to you!

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  18. Oh sweetie, I'm sorry I missed this and I'm so sorry that things have been so hard for you guys.

    I know that you'll get thru this and Ron will be just fine, altho i know how scared you must feel.

    Thinking of you from oceans away and sending you huge hugs xxx

    Happy birthday Mook!!!

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  19. Everything is happening so fast! Hang in there, and I hope Ron stays in until February 4th. Can't wait to see him!

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  20. I also wish I lived closer to help keep you distracted! Maybe I'll upload more pics for you to look at. :)
    I hope they're taking great care of you! I know that you (and all of us!) are praying for no NICU time for Ron, but rest assured that it's not quite as scary as it sounds and that the nurses there (at least here) are great at what they do, and that that time (if there is any) will go really fast.
    Praying for you!

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  21. It's tough but hang in there. You're doing really well. Sorry about the IV in your hand.

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  22. You're doing beautifully. I hope you're enjoying the snow! It's beautiful, isn't it? :) ((HUGS))

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  23. Thinking of you, my friend. Baby O and I continue to rub angel wings every day for you, Ron, and Mook

    xx

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  24. Wow, my computer isn't working right now at home so I missed a lot on my long weekend. I'm sorry you have to deal with this, but it sounds like you are in great hands. I wish I could make it down there to keep you company.

    Tell Mook I said Happy 30th! I will be thinking of you and sending you lots of prayers that Ron stays in until the 4th...can they try to make it last until the 5th (that is my birthday)?

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  25. Keep us updated! I have been thinking about you and Ron.

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  26. Glad to hear that they're treating you like the pregnant princess you are!
    February 4th is so close, wow.
    Hope your heating pad and Tylenol kick in soon--ouch.

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  27. We were in NC (near the coast) this weekend when i received your twitter about hospital stay. I wanted so badly to drive to you and give you a hug! Thinking of you

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  28. Hi JJ....just wanted to share my sympathies for what you must be going through and say you're in my thoughts. I'm 26.5 weeks and was hospitalized 2 weeks ago with a bleed from a marginal previa. I was released after a week and am now on bed rest at home. We too went through the NICU doc visits and steroid shots...so I know the worry, plus the hope you have for keeping the baby inside as long as possible. I always feel encouraged to hear stories that turn out well - I have a friend who made it to 34 weeks with complete previa and her baby did fantastically. Wishing you the best of luck! (and I totally agree about the hospital beds too!!)

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  29. Glad to hear that the food is at least decent!

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  30. Hang in there JJ! You're doing awesome!

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  31. sending you 'hang in there' vibes. I remember visiting a friend you was in the maternal fetal monitoring wing for 2 months, obviously it won't be that long but I kinda sorta not really sympathize. Oh and also, the 21st is my daughter's sixth birthday, hoping he can keep baking but just saying he might have an e-birthday buddy...I'm rambling..good luck!

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  32. Hope you get the snow you wanted. Thinking of you.

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  33. So sorry to hear you're at the hospital for the rest of your pregnancy. Very glad you are in such good hands though. Hang in there until Ron shows. I'll be thinking of you

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  34. It is SO cool that you are keeping us posted while you are in the hospital! I feel like we are all there with you!

    Happy (belated) Birthday to Mook!

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  35. Just getting caught up today, and here you are in the hospital! Just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you and pulling for you, Mook and Ron! If you ever need to chat, let me know (drop me an email and I'll send you my #).

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  36. oh man, this really takes me back. it's so crazy now looking back at the time when day by day we were weighing lung maturity versus the risks of keeping her in, i don't think i was able to absorb it fully at the time because i just wouldn't have been able to handle it. plus i had so much trust in my doctor and it sounds like you have a fabulous one too. i'm very excited for you and wishing the best for all three of you! hang tight ron, and mook bring more pillows!!

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  37. Wow! I'm going to have to check you twice daily now! Good luck! Hang in there Ron!

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  38. Glad to hear that you and Ron are still alright. The Diaper Dude looked cool.
    Ron, February 4th would be a terrific birthday if you are so inclined to stay put that long.
    JP

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  39. Delurking to say my daughter will be three on February 4. She was born 3 weeks early due to low amniotic fluid and preeclampsia. She spent one week in NICU and there are some awesome nurses in NICU's. I spent two weeks in the hospital before her arrival-but in the end it was worth every day. Hang in there. Ron will be fine

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  40. Ron will do great, you've done well to get so far along. The NG tube isn't so bad, been there!

    xx

    J

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  41. Glad to hear that your dr. is still be awesome...Feb 4th is SO exciting! You're doing a GREAT job already at being a mommy.

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  42. I'll have more smutty magazines for you tomorrow and if you are lucky another contraband shake... YUM! Rest up, watch Obama, send mook home to go to bed (he needs rest!) and we'll chat tomorrow. Love you guys,

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  43. I hope that Ron can hold one a little longer and may those 15 days go by very very fast. I will be thinking and praying for you my friend. HUGSSSSSSSSs

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  44. You are in the home stretch now. I am sooo excited for you. And it sounds like Ron is doing all he can to prep for his homecoming!

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  45. I'm sorry you're uncomfortable, but your spirits seem great. Delurking to offer my best wishes for a safe passage for little Ron. :) And happy belated birthday to your H!

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  46. Ugh--bed butt. Have you tried a soft wedge pillow with a tail bone cut out? That might ease some of the pressure on it.

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  47. Sending good thoughts your way ...

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  48. Wow JJ. I am praying so hard that your body and Ron can hold out a few more days at least. I hope your butt feels better soon. Mine hurts in my regular bed.. I can't imagine yours.
    ((HUGS))

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  49. Just dropping in to say hi and hang in there!

    Bea

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  50. Just wanted to pop in and say hi! I'm so glad you are updating...February 4 will be here in no time!
    And Ambien, sweet Ambien. I only had it one night but what a night that was. I have pictures (that I took while sleepwalking around my hospital room) to remember it. That's some strong stuff!!!
    Take care :)

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  51. Beautiful JJ .... thinking of you and sending love your way.

    So close, now, WOW. I still remember the birds that visited you before your BFP.

    Hope you are going ok. XOXOXOXO

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  52. Hang in there, nice lady. Just keep telling yourself,

    WORTH IT
    WORTH IT
    WORTH IT

    It's gonna be awesome.

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  53. I just heard! I hope all three of you are doing well and continue to do well!

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  54. You're doing great and staying strong! Hospital beds are the worst, I agree! Good luck...keep us posted!

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  55. Girl, I am saying LOTS of prayers for you! Prayers that you and Ron are safe and that when it's time for Ron to make his appearance that it's very routine. It sounds like you are getting wonderful care! (((HUGS)))

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